It really can be tough being the eldest and having everyone look up to you even when sometimes you don't even know the right path to take or the right decision to make but you just have to make it anyway cos people are expecting such from you and pray you didn't make a big mistake. Being the first comes with a lot of responsibilities. I'm glad your sister taught you well and you are carrying on very well.
But...I don't think you are stubborn though
Very tough ma. Being the eldest is really a big duty but I believe once they are focused and have God with them, things would go well, even though it doesn't get easy along the way.
Hehehe! Though it isn't something one can easily get to know except you happen to be with me. I would definitely show it out 😅😅