I look at this in the reverse: encourage what you want to see. People's development is where they are at the moment, but what is watered and nurtured will grow. People will learn emotional intelligence only when being treated with emotional intelligence.
I look at this in the reverse: encourage what you want to see. People's development is where they are at the moment, but what is watered and nurtured will grow. People will learn emotional intelligence only when being treated with emotional intelligence.
that's actually a much more 'zen' approach, well said.