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It's not about spending before marriage o cos ladies even get to observe if you're the type that would really care for them after getting married to you m and I'm not talking about those who wants to exploit a man here. So it's all about discerning who and who you're spending on. Does she really want you or your money

How can you tell if she wants you for your money or you?

Ahha from how she acts now. I don't know how to explain that better but I know from their fruits you shall know them