That’s kind of a broad question … I keep my eyes open for red flags and don’t engage with them, one red flag is people who try to guilt or pressure you or someone else to do things they don’t want to do
Yes I suppose it is going that route. Goons were sent on me to gaslight and brainwash. My funds were taken already. My ATM and stuff too. Already moving away from them. But its getting cat and mouse with goons on my tail. Feels like CIA operative hiding lol.
Money and old age. Their logic is like we need to use and once we use you then you are on your own. None of our business. You the asian family systems.
“Pay us for raising you” ? I think my parents felt that for a while but they wouldn’t dare say it cause in the west they paint everything in a good and altruistic image.
Glad you got out of their house. I was gonna ask where you are from but then I realized your name isn’t Proton E-PAL. Crazy time over there!
That’s kind of a broad question … I keep my eyes open for red flags and don’t engage with them, one red flag is people who try to guilt or pressure you or someone else to do things they don’t want to do
Yes considering its family and relatives its getting harder. Its hard to stand up for myself when gaslighting and social pressure is used.
Urgh, I had to move halfway around the planet to put my parents in their place 😬
Yes I suppose it is going that route. Goons were sent on me to gaslight and brainwash. My funds were taken already. My ATM and stuff too. Already moving away from them. But its getting cat and mouse with goons on my tail. Feels like CIA operative hiding lol.
Wow, that’s wild. What was their reasoning? What do they want from you? Just money? 😳
Money and old age. Their logic is like we need to use and once we use you then you are on your own. None of our business. You the asian family systems.
“Pay us for raising you” ? I think my parents felt that for a while but they wouldn’t dare say it cause in the west they paint everything in a good and altruistic image.
Glad you got out of their house. I was gonna ask where you are from but then I realized your name isn’t Proton E-PAL. Crazy time over there!
Keep conversations brief and don't argue with them. 😁
I don't. I either ignore or antagonize them.
If you find out.. Let me know please lol
Staying myself away from them.
Cut ties, burn bridges if you have to 🥹