I agree with some things you mention here, but situation is rather complicated for every single person as we are all affected by this. Sometimes obeying the rules that are set for everyone alike is hard to do, because it would only work if every single person would be fortunate enough to afford not going out there and doing what they need to do to feed their family and survive. For example, here in my country, I know that there are many people who were fired, they can't survive on whatever the country provides in support, they have bills to pay, kids to feed, and try in that situation tell those people to stay home and starve. It is the impossible choice.
Sounds like the hospital situation is not very well set up for you there. Here, if someone suspects to have the virus, the hospital workers come to homes and take the tests. Then if they are positive they got to stay home and treat themselves in quarantine. Only bad cases get taken to the hospital. Of course, it is still not ideal, but having crowds of people in front of hospital without masks or any understanding of whether the people are infected there or not, is bound for disaster. That sucks.
Of course, there are many reckless people out there too, who can do better. And I agree. This is time when we got to think of others too, not just ourselves.
I know a lot of people have lost their job and quite a few got put in difficulty. However social distancing is a must in this case and maybe the only effective weapon among with disinfecting against this crazy virus.