I think a lot of the time people don't want to go to counselors because they are afraid of what they are going to be told. Either that or they already know what might need to be changed, but it isn't real until they are confronted with it. That's just my opinion anyway. I have never been to one, but I am a big fan of them and I am happy to see that some of the stigma around seeing one is starting to be less relevant these days.