while many parents want what is "best" for their children, yet due to human nature and external influences, will naturally do what is most convenient, which tends not to be what is best for their children. this attracted me, I tend to believe that this is influenced by the natural change in nature, it has become a norms now on parents of today. Wanting the best for a child or children by discipline and rules isn't a way of stunting his or her mental health. That's why it's good to start it at earlier stages. @tarazkp