It's a firepit, so not quite a bonfire but not a camp fire. In the middle! Glad you liked the pictures, I find them really cool as well! I should have taken more of them haha oh well.
Hahaha yeah we know quite a few people who are unreasonably grumpy that's for sure! I wish they would be thoughtful or something instead but they are not. It's interesting though I never thought of the singing part but it makes sense! A lot of people that are older really like to sing in church choirs and stuff.