Everything you mention is part of our essence because we have a light side and a shadow side. They coexist and fight each other, sometimes leaving us in a sorry state.
We all make mistakes, because it's part of growing up. Recognizing the mistake is fundamental. However, sometimes, stubbornly, we can't let go of what no longer interests us. And we insist on mistakes that will torment us in the future.
It's hard, extremely hard, to admit that there are things that weren't meant for us and, stubbornly, we're holding on to them. We only hurt ourselves with that.
There's nothing greater than having the discernment to abandon the illusion created by limiting beliefs.
This rainy weather, for these latitudes, helps to reflect on this. Just like your post.
Have an excellent weekend with yours.