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Indeed, that's true; simple accepting what is will never help progression.

Also, I'm with you on the gossip thing, hate it.

Quite similar to what I feel. Very insightful
The funny thing about gossip is how it starts, from what you see to encouraging hearsay and then the full blown gossip. Point is if you don't want to be caught in the gossip trap, try to stay as far away from things that would lead it

that's true, then it will become an hassle