I am a very cautious regular driver, I don't like to race my partner, if he is a great driver he has been driving since he was a teenager he is more skilled at driving in my country, any meeting is an excuse to drink from a board game to a children's birthday, or a simple baptism is an excuse to drink is something normal here unfortunately I have relatives who died for not having control that's why there are many accidents, the laws in that part are very flexible.
I have no tolerance for those who choose to drive under the influence of drugs or alcohol; it's irresponsible, anti-social and downright dangerous. I don't mind when people who drink drive have accidents and die though, they deserve it.; as long as they don't hurt anyone else of course. They chose their fate.