This must be one of the most heart-breaking and traumatic experiences for a woman to experience, especially these days when it is relatively uncommon. And then to have to go through the birth process still seems like piling trauma onto trauma and I suspect that the psychological damage for the mother and all closely involved, will be lasting.
if there is a god/ creator(I don't believe so and hope that I am right) it made some quite crazy decisions while creating us. hair in wrong places like nose, ears...one gender bleeding, having ability to get stillborn...And then of course there is pinnacle rock bottom of our species- orange man and his best friends...
What I find even stranger is that some christians see almost everything as their fault and not god's fault. My mother said that she had miscarriage many years ago. She spoke about this to priest. As if miscarriage was her sin and not a god's fault. I will probably never understand this all that is good if thanks to god and all that is bad is from devil/our sins theory. If god is all knowing and he created devil then everything the devil does is god's fault...
People will pay to get rid of their guilt, and the religions know it.