Growing up in life I used to think that fear is something that we need to avoid by all means. I usually dodged engaging in things that bring fear in my life, I pretend that it wasn’t there but when I look back I just realized that every time I'm shielding myself away from this fear. I was missing a chance to grow.
This is the main truth here. Wenever you’re feeling stuck or afraid they know that you’re really missing out sometimes the right direction in life often feels like you need to take a huge amount of courage to prove yourself.
There was people that when I look at my life and saw things that I never achieved or I didn’t achieve because I was afraid to try. I didn’t have these keys although I was looking at others and admiring their achievement and success. The relationship I had of the career, the life I wanted to live I saw them around me but I didn’t have the confidence to chase. I use to feel they were because I was not talented enough or they were just lucky or I was not meant to have such things.
But this thing hit me one day. Those guys weren’t just about talent or luck, they were more of courage. The courage I didn’t have was what others were using to build up their life and rise to the top. I have to train myself to train, to work on myself harder, to speak up whenever it matters, to keep on taking risks, to sit with my own thoughts and believe in myself so that I can figure out my life from there.
I’m very determined to face my fear head on. I wanted to change my career. I thought starting over was very terrific. It was horrible. I was worried, what if I fail, what if I could not make it, what if I lost. My stomach was leaping. I was afraid but something struck me and even though I was all in discomfort, I decided At first it was not perfect but those choices gave me the courage to keep pushing, to overcome this fearlessness.
It’s not a bad thing. It’s about overcoming this fear that is holding us down the same way we can apply all this to the law of our family and even self-confidence in general. I was irritated to tell people the way I felt because I was scared of getting rejected.
Sometimes I finally somehow had the courage but it didn’t go as planned because I was not free to express myself. I’ve done so many hard things. But you just don’t know. it’s more out of bravery can really open doors to deeper connection in your life
Every time I decided to chase this courage whether it was just trying to compromise my freedom my comfort or trying to leave my comfort zone to build something new with my family or to be somebody to chase my dream or to make that investment it was just a time alone to reflect. It made me closer to God and life in person.
Here is the thing about the talents, the career, the keys, everything you want is on the other side of courage fear is like the gatekeeper. If you can overcome it or push past it then you can achieve what you wanted to achieve.
You just need to show up every day take that class some other course make that conversation each small act of bravery can lead you to where you never imagined it. Embrace this fear, reflect on your life. See what you didn’t have the courage to chase and chase them now before it is too late.
This is a sign that you are on the wrong path when you are being afraid to take that courage. It’s a proof that when you take this courage to prove that you’re on the right track you have to keep going and know you’ve got this fix your life now.
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