There comes a time in my life when everything was feeling like a stress and like a call. Things just feel like a very big task. I always feel it was a punishment and spending time with people I love sometimes just as if it was just a huge obligation.
I kept asking myself why do people seem to do all this in their effort looking like they never feel stress until one day I found out that all these things are not just about efforts but you are doing it is about deriving joy in what you do.
It can be the way you calm when you enjoy writing. When you stop writing for approval and start writing for yourself, your thoughts, your clarity it can change how you see everything instead of writing or stressing yourself to please others you just write for your own enjoyment and thoughts suddenly your words can become a way to understand life instead of trying to impress people.
Just write according to how you feel at the moment pour out yourself don't seek validation through your writing and look at my journal show my mirror on each page it feels like a very huge conversation.
It is very easy to be fit and enjoy training, but sometimes I force myself doing workouts I hated. I tried some things to enjoy it like dancing while working out, skipping but it did not change the stress but when I started seeing the need to do that and enjoying the fitness.
The benefit I considered with it. It stopped being a duty and became a lifetime. When you see how amazing your body follows and how it has become, then you'll be willing to see it as just a lifetime, not in much.
It is to be ready when you genuinely enjoy learning about how life works. Money used to intimidate people, maybe project investment and economics, all of it, but once you just realised that understanding money meant that you are trying to understand people and how the system works, then you begin to enjoy making money.
I started to see it not just as numbers on the screen, but more of a story, a habit and a choice that you make every day to get what you want.
And also in your family, you can love friends generally and enjoy spending time, but there is something powerful about spending is that what you add to your life is what you get. And that's what you get. And that's what you I'll change to India.
You might be schooling, checking the clock, but sometimes it feels as if you are not present there. The best relationships are not built together but they are built with true attraction genuine connection, attention and affection.
It is easy to be creative when you genuinely enjoy when you genuinely enjoy yourself sometimes this solitude is not loneliness. They are just because solitude is not loneliness you just need a space to keep quiet and let ideas come. You should not have the fear of being alone it's the time to recharge yourself make progress.
The other part of it is not just the work it is you it is the greatest time to the work you are afraid of doing. Once you fall in love with what you're doing and fall in love with the process progress become inevitable. You begin to enjoy your life genuinely, you enjoy the hard things that brings the good and the best results.
You grow, you inspire others, your life feel less like a story more like unfolding the story that is hiding behind. You maybe the secrets, it's not just about trying out about this enjoy yourself more as life goes on.
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