Every club should have an open door. Otherwise, new people will be alienated and not welcomed. It of course takes confidence from the person entering the club - to get involved with it, and to continuing showing up. To forget people's names, and to learn them again, then forget them again.
I think that I have just started writing with my heart instead of my brain, and it makes it a lot easier.
Yeah, you should stick with the Nigerians, they are a lot easier to convince.