Hi @boy04 welcome to Hive. I'm @palomap3 from Lovesniper OCD team.
Congratulations on your first post. I like your reflection. Everything that happens to us is relative, because we see it from our own perspective. It is good to practise putting ourselves in other people's shoes. It helps us to put things into perspective and saves us from conflict.
It would be nice if you tell us about yourself in the next post. For example: Where are you from? How did you hear about Hive? Did a friend recommend it to you? If so, it would be good to mention his/her username so he/she knows you posted. Here is some useful information, and I recommend you start exploring the communities I link below.
Tips and information as a Hive newbie here: newbie guide.
Communities you might like that are part of the OCD Communities Incubation Program. Important: read their rules and post in the one that fits your content.
Have a good day!