But what is worth "the trouble".
That is really the question. With food, it's easy, people can just order. But in relationships, especially getting married and having children, it isn't something that you can go around or have take backs. A lot of people don't consider the rewards to be worth the risk, and I can't really blame them. For me, I think I'm deciding with the best information I have now, while still planning for the future.
I have thought about this a bit and I reckon it is perhaps worth asking people in different age groups older than us about their experiences and regrets, as well as the things they believe brought them value.
From what I've read, most older people regret what they didn't do. If they are married with kids, they would say they wanted to travel more and enjoy being single more. If they are single, they would have wanted to get married and have kids. It's basically grass being greener on the other side.