Totally agree that we should just be ourselves! Personally I don't give myself any pressure - unlike some, I don't set any Hive Goals or targets. Just happy to be engaging with a (generally) friendly community and Hive votes are just icing on the cake. Different strokes for different people I guess.
I like your style!
I think people strong those goals and targets do so primarily so they can do a shit post about their goals and targets each month. Not a lot of personality there though.