Parenting is one of those things where no matter what you do, it will always be wrong XD They are always going to be "damaged" in some way (or consider themselves as such or be considered by others as such if they're that way inclined).
And there isn't a "perfect" way to do things because all thie "perfect" contradicts each other.
Literally the only thing you can do is the best you can with what you have and what you know and as long as they turn out "all right" at worst and better than you at best, then you done good.
And barring something major happening in the interim she will definitely turn out fine because she's a smart and self-aware little thing and you're doing everything you can to keep facilitating that development.