not taking someone else's and making it fit or putting it together like a Lego set.
This one is perfectly beaded. I have seen, people always try to replicate other lifestyle and in process mess around with their own life.....it is importsnt to take a leaf out of others and try to make it far better.
Sometime life is unpredictable, and it brings many surprises, that a person is not prepared for. My tussle is still going on..and frankly no plans seems to work out...and I forget to make any plan.....
Have you followed someone else's path and found out that it didn't work? Have you designed your own? In either case how did it work out?
it was a demanding situation ,, and I paved my way towards it....but i am sure, it is too early to say anything.....something will click soon...hopefully.
I'm sure it'll all move in the right direction, you know how to get things moving forward. Good luck.