I am kind of similar attitude of drawing a line with someone with whom going gets tough...our understanding thought, idea never match up. But as I shifted to my village, I found a strange behaviour. People who used to avoid other person, never cut out from them. They may say, bad words behind them, but when they need any help.and support they are the ones who take a step to approach them. I begining i face a tough situation but now gradually adapting...
People's behaviours can often be quite surprising to others, I guess people are always going to do what suits them and I'm ok with that, as long as they accept the fact that others will do the same. They tend to forget that last part.