It's easy for men to go on a diatribe about the state that some people live their lives, after all men overwhelmingly created the mechanism in place that are failing, while breaking all the rules along the way. Maybe if they'd stop breaking all the rules they could stop going on rants about the state of other people's lives.
Not sure it is just men at fault in this case. 51% of the population s female and play a massive part in the economy - even when they weren't the ones earning.