Like she suddenly thinks I am less of a man. Silly right?
Perhaps not so silly. Maybe it is human nature to feel that we are letting those we care about down when we fail to help them. Maybe the real issue is when we have no one to let down and only act for ourselves?
but like I said in my post a while ago I am trying to teach them to fish, not just give them fish.
They will ever appreciate it, until no one is there to help them.
You are probably right on all counts!