Men don't cry no matter what happens
There has been some interesting literature coming out recently that one of the problems is that men have been told to show their emotions (they put it more eloquently), rather than manage their emotions. And that one of the problems in society is that there are not enough male role models who demonstrate healthy masculinity. The feminine side is taken care of, but there isn't the balance, and there are still genetic factors to consider as to what a body needs to thrive.
Demonstrating healthy masculinity is one of the targets of those wanting to eliminate toxic masculinity.