Also expensive ;-;
Very!
I think everyone varies between the two at times - except for sickos who think they are the best all the time. However, I feel that I am lacking in so many areas at the moment, that I am not adding enough value to have anything higher than low :)
I think at times like that you have to figure well you're still married and get on with your family and have friends who like spending time with you (even if finding common times to do that can be an epic battle in and of itself) so there's that.