but in reality, everything is connected.
The more we try to disconnect and put into vacuums, the worse our life becomes.
I think we are sum total of our experience and our attitude to life.
Which raises the question about forgiveness too. Is a person a single negative action they performed, or are they the accumulation of all actions?
Living a life of purpose is what we have to be deliberate about.
Act with intention. If it doesn't work as intended, that is okay. Act again with intention.