I used to be a controlling person and believed I needed to take firm steps. I used to make plans for five or 10 years into the future. Would I enjoy it? Of course not. Then I gave up on that. I decided to live my life based on how I could savor the moment, the immediate future. I'm going to sleep in a few hours, and until then, I'm thinking about how I can be productive. I'm planning where I'll go tomorrow to find the most fun. My life right now is more enjoyable.