I have this argument all the time with people. People can't really help who they are naturally attracted to but what they need to control is the action(harm). I've been called all kinds of names because I might comment on how a girl looks really pretty and get the "Uh, she's like 15." response. I'm sorry, does that make her ugly? No, they are basically saying I shouldn't say it out loud I guess. It's not like I said I wanted to go over and bed her. Anyhow, there's my rant.
Good rant!