Making an important decision | • My commitment 🫂💗💍[ES/EN]

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"No lo pensé dos veces para tomar esa decisión ".../ "I didn't think twice about making that decision"...

He escuchado esa frase muchas veces provenir de personas que sin pensar mucho las cosas toman decisiones ,y es lógico hay decisiones que simplemente se toman en cuestión de segundos como decidir que bebida queremos tomar cuando estamos en un restaurante o si queremos salir a pasear o no ,son decisiones que se toman al instante y piensas es lógico decir " no lo pensé dos veces porque luego podría arrepentirme" ,a diferencia de las decisiones que tomamos las que si importan y las que son serias si no lo debemos tomar a la ligera ,tal como lo fué para mí tomar una de las decisiones más importantes de mi vida "Mi compromiso".

I've heard that phrase many times from people who make decisions without thinking things through, and it's logical; some decisions are made in a matter of seconds, like deciding what drink to have at a restaurant or whether to go for a walk or not. These are decisions made instantly, and you think, "It's logical to say, 'I didn't think twice because I might regret it later.'" Unlike the decisions we make that truly matter and are serious, those shouldn't be taken lightly, as was the case for me when I made one of the most important decisions of my life: "My engagement."

Me costaba mucho pensar en que iba a encontrar alguien que también quisiera casarse y que se tomara muy en serio esto , fué mucho tiempo buscando alguien que se sincera conmigo pero llegué en un punto en que comprendí que las cosas forzada no siempre resultan bien y que tomarme tiempo para mi , sanar y aprender a quererme yo misma era algo que debía hacer antes de tomar una decisión importante como casarme ,porque pensaba en que si no era capaz de amarme a mi misma me iba a costar amar a mi pareja,pero a medida que empecé a madurar fuí aprendiendo muchas cosas que me han sido muy útiles ahora y lo bueno que fué no precipitarme antes de tiempo.Cuando se llegó el momento de formalizar mi noviazgo desde ese momento comencé a pensar en el paso importante que tenía que dar que era el de comprometerme con quién amaba,y es que no es fácil cuando a penas conoces a la persona ,los problemas que afrontamos los roces todo eso hizo que nuestro noviazgo fuera en parte un poco tenso pero pensabamos si realmente nos amamos y nos queriamos cada uno iba a poner de su parte para demostrar que era así y afrontar juntos cada prueba que llegara y hasta la fecha asi ha sido.

It was hard for me to imagine finding someone who also wanted to get married and who would take it seriously. I spent a long time looking for someone who would be honest with me, but I reached a point where I understood that forced things don't always work out well and that taking time for myself, healing, and learning to love myself was something I had to do before making an important decision like getting married. I thought that if I wasn't capable of loving myself, it would be hard to love my partner. But as I began to mature, I learned many things that have been very useful to me now, and it was a good thing I didn't rush into anything. When the time came to formalize my relationship, from that moment on, I began to think about the important step I had to take, which was committing to the person I loved. It's not easy when you barely know the person. The problems we faced, the friction—all of that made our relationship a little tense at times, but we thought that if we truly loved and cared for each other, we would each do our part to make it work. to prove that it was so and to face together every challenge that came, and to this day it has been so.

Durante ese tiempo pensé en el compromiso que conlleva casarse lo había pensado muchas veces el paso que iba a tomar a partir de ese momento comencé a pensar en mi compromiso ,que cosas debía cambiar en mi que cosas hacer para ser una buena novia ,aprender a escuchar más a ser más comprensiva , honesta ,sincera y empática cosa que me ha costado ser desde mucho tiempo atrás,trabajar en eso me costaba desde el principio como aprender a soportar y ser mejor cada día con mi pareja demostrar que realmente quería comprometerme con el , aunque aún me faltan cosas por aprender allí sigo demostrando cada dia mas lo mucho que me esfuerzo por demostrarle eso y más.

During that time, I thought about the commitment that marriage entails. I had thought about it many times, the step I was about to take. From that moment on, I began to think about my commitment, what things I should change about myself, what things I should do to be a good girlfriend, learn to listen more, to be more understanding, honest, sincere, and empathetic—something that has been difficult for me to be for a long time. Working on that was difficult from the beginning, like learning to endure and be better every day with my partner, showing that I really wanted to commit to him. Although I still have things to learn, I continue to show him more and more each day how much I strive to demonstrate that and more.

Cuando se llegó el dia del compromiso no sabía porque era una sopresa,me sentí tan feliz porque sabía que había tomado la decisión correcta y me había tomado el tiempo suficiente para pensar claramente en lo que conlleva comprometerse para contraer matrimonio ,que no tenía que tomarme a la ligera esta decisión y lo que decidiera tenía que estar consiente de lo que estaba haciendo sin forzar las cosas y que se dieran cuando fuese el momento exacto para hacerlo ...Hace tres meses que nos comprometimos y pienso que fué una bonita decisión no me arrepiento de ello y aunque aún me falta mucho por aprender saber que di este paso en su mejor momento me hace feliz.

When the engagement day arrived, I didn't know why it was a surprise. I felt so happy because I knew I had made the right decision and had taken enough time to think clearly about what committing to marriage entails. I knew I shouldn't take this decision lightly, and whatever I decided, I had to be aware of what I was doing, without forcing things, and that they would happen when the time was right. We got engaged three months ago, and I think it was a beautiful decision. I don't regret it, and although I still have a lot to learn, knowing that I took this step at the best time makes me happy.

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