Hola amigos de Hive
Hola saludos miembros de la comunidad de Holos&Lotus en esta oportunidad me uno a la iniciativa sobre infancia & muerte, es un tema difícil de expresarlo en la mayoría de los casos, ciertamente como seres humanos desde la prehistoria hemos tenido el instinto de conservación de la materia, nos asusta el hecho de pensar en que algo malo puede sucedernos, cuando alguien se le diagnostica una enfermedad crónica automáticamente llegan pensamientos intrusivos que nos hace pensar en dolor y muerte, independientemente de la edad que se tenga, ahora bien, al hablar de muerte en la infancia, causa un estremecimiento de dolor aún más fuerte aún sin conocer al afectado, solo con leer una noticia de un fallecimiento de un niño/a genera en nosotros tristeza.
Al cabo, de unos minutos, los minutos más tensos, dice: “después de examinar muy bien, lamento decirte que no están vivos, llegaron y ya el corazón no latía”, mi hermana lloraba con un dolor tan grande, parecía que su vida se había acabado en ese instante, yo me acerque y solo me quede con ella a su lado mientras ella lloraba yo la abrazaba, no sabía qué hacer, que decir, sentía mucha tristeza de verla así y de perder a mis sobrinos.
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Hello, greetings members of the Holos&Lotus community, this time I join the initiative on childhood & death, it is a difficult subject to express in most cases, certainly as human beings since prehistoric times we have had the instinct of conservation of matter The fact of thinking that something bad can happen to us scares us. When someone is diagnosed with a chronic disease, intrusive thoughts automatically arrive that make us think of pain and death, regardless of how old one is, now, when talking about death in childhood, it causes an even stronger shudder of pain even without knowing the person affected, just reading news about the death of a child generates sadness in us.
Continuing with this line, I am not a mother, I could not imagine the great pain that a mother can feel when losing a child, however, I am a sister and an aunt, and I witnessed a sad experience that I want to share with all of you, a few years ago My sister got pregnant, it was her second feat, we were happy to know that another baby would come home, we longed for her arrival, one night after returning from karate with my eldest nephew, my sister realized that she was bleeding, so we decided to leave she and I to the clinic while my brother-in-law came home from work. The doctor begins to examine and notices something that he had not said in previous consultations, the surprise is that there were two babies, we felt very happy and at the same time afraid, since the doctor did not say anything, there was a lot of silence, at that moment I felt that my heart was going to jump out of fright.
After a few minutes, the most tense minutes, she says: "after examining very well, I'm sorry to tell you that they are not alive, they arrived and the heart was no longer beating", my sister cried with such great pain, it seemed that her life It was over at that moment, I approached and I just stayed with her by her side while she cried I hugged her, I didn't know what to do, what to say, I was very sad to see her like this and to lose my nephews.
It is a very painful experience that I do not want anyone to experience, however, I know that they are external situations to which we are constantly exposed, one day we are healthy and the next day we wake up sick due to a virus. I also want to convey the importance in difficult moments like these where there is a duel in the whole family, it is necessary and fair to have that support network, where we feel that warmth and encouragement just by being there, also, from my position as a psychologist I recommend allowing yourself to go through each of the stages of mourning, having that psychological accompaniment, being listened to comforts us, I remember a couplet that I read a long time ago in a book that said: "Communicate your sorrows to me, I will tell you my pain, what sorrows communicated , Penalties with relief are"
Saludos, bienvenida a la Comunidad y gracias por compartirnos tu experiencia.
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Que tristeza lo que han pasado. Es un golpe muy fuerte para nosotras las mujeres, perder un bebé. Muchas fortaleza para todos. Saludos
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Hola @aurizerpa una doble pena, un dolor tan grande por la perdida dos bebés. Lamento la tristeza por la tuvo que pasar tu hermana y todos como familias, también sufriendo pero allí, apoyándola como lo hace una familia especialmente en los momentos de duelo, cuando la muerte nos asalta y nos deja despojados de los hijos y del deseo de vivir. Pero el apoyo, es tan importante para quien vive directamente la muerte de un niño. Muchas gracias por sumarte a esta iniciativa que no es tan sencilla, por el duro tema que aborda.
Un abrazo 🙏💙
Gracias a ti por leerme.
Bienvenidas las Delegaciones / Welcome Delegations
Trail de Curación / Curation Trail
Es importante destacar muchas verdades en este post, pero, me gustaría esta:
"Ser escuchados nos reconforta."
No lo olvidemos.
De allí que esta ventana de nuestra comunidad de @holos-lotus, sea tan efectiva para encotrar sustento a cómo vemos las cosas, y a vivir los duelos o etáopas, de la manera más acompañada posible.
Saludos @aurizerpa
Gracias por tu comentario. Saludos
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