Hello dear #Holos&Lotus community 💮🧘♀️🧘I haven't been so interested in a topic like this to develop for some time. I am very friendly and therefore, very conversational and I like to know how others feel. I have like a knack for guessing what is going on with others and I use that as a tool to engage in conversation that is reciprocal, enjoyable and nurturing. I am now preparing to develop this initiative with the guidance of the proposed questions to make this activity more enjoyable. I extend my congratulations to @damarysvibra for this initiative.
¿Consideras que sabes conversar?
Do you consider yourself a conversationalist?
In general, yes. But sometimes I am very absent-minded, I admit it. Especially using WhatsApp. And now less so having a baby almost 2 months old because I have little time to write but as I like to keep in touch with my family and loved ones, I tend to use voice notes more and they now with me too. The conversations I enjoy the most are the 'Face to Face' ones, where I can look at the person and see their facial expressions. Plus if you meet someone it's because you like that person. Where I'm from, I liked to meet my closest friends in a nice cafe and sit for hours and hours talking. Any interesting or strange topic would come up and I loved that. There are people with whom conversation flows naturally, easily and satisfyingly. And in the company of a cup of coffee, these conversations are pleasurable.
¿Qué valoras más en una persona con la que te guste conversar?
What do you value most in a person you enjoy talking to?
I like to be looked in the eye and paid attention to. I hate the fact that nowadays that is not valued because people prefer to be on the phone while they talk to you. Many people don't respect the simple rules of communication between the good speaker and the listener. So why meet with a person to talk if you are not going to be present? I find it unpleasant and disrespectful. I think that if you meet or engage in a conversation with a person it is because you want to know how they are, how they feel, what has happened in general in their life and the fact of sharing with another person is a nice thing to do. If you don't like it, I don't think you're wasting your time, right? Another thing that annoys me is the fact that people don't say goodbye in the right way when a conversation has been established through a social network. I think a lot of people assume that it's an 'equis' conversation, of little importance and they stop talking to you without saying goodbye.
¿Qué beneficios encuentras en tus conversaciones con los otros?; ¿Y tú, qué piensas que les aportas?
What benefits do you find in your conversations with others; and what do you think you bring to them?
I love talking with my family and friends. It is cathartic and you learn a lot from others. In fact, every afternoon at home, in Venezuela 🇻🇪 I used to prepare some candy and with my coffee, I would sit with my family to talk. Those were unique and valuable moments that I miss very much today, but now I share them with my husband. On the other hand, I consider that I have very intelligent and conversational friends from whom I learn every day. If I want to talk about deep issues about problems affecting society, I have a friend for that. If I want to talk about memes and laughing things, I have several friends for that as well. Or why not, I have a sister-in-law that I talk to about travel and I share with her blogs and places in the Spanish Peninsula where I would like to go if I ever go there. I think it's nice to share that affinity with different people, that even if we don't talk to each other every day, there is that connection that unites us.
Gracias por tomarte un tiempo y valorar mi contenido. Invito a @nathyortiz a sumarse a esta iniciativa ❤️
Thank you for taking the time and appreciating my content. I invite @nathyortiz to join this initiative ❤️
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Tienes razón conversar con la familia es catártico, yo también soy despistada en el WhatsApp sobre todo para responder notas de voz, a mi me gusta conversar en persona persona directamente por llamada. Saludos y bendiciones
Si. La verdad los extraño muchísimo y aunque nos hablemos todos los días por WhatsApp, no es lo mismo. Pero bueno, se aprecia. Saludos @yole ❤️✌️
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Muchísimas gracias ❤️
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