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Love is a beautiful feeling, which requires great responsibility.
We think that it is only giving affection to the other person, when it goes much further. So, the 1+1= Together initiative raised by @rosahidalgo leaves us with two very interesting questions that lead us to reflection and self-discovery.
Do you want to know what they are? I invite you to continue reading.
El amor es un hermoso sentimiento, que requiere una gran responsabilidad.
Pensamos en que solo es dar afecto a la otra persona, cuando va mucho más allá. Así que, la iniciativa iniciativa 1+1= Juntos planteada por @rosahidalgo nos deja con dos preguntas muy interesantes que nos llevan a la reflexión y el auto-descubrimiento.
¿Quieres saber cuales son? Te invito a continuar leyendo.
What do I need to know to have better relationships? | ¿Qué tengo que saber para tener mejores relaciones?
Maturity
Thanks to my personal experience I learned that what I have to know is whether I am a mature person or not.
Relationships require patience, empathy, love, but above all maturity. I think that gives you the benefit of knowing how to recognize what you expect from the other person, what you can contribute to a relationship, as well as many important aspects.
You can spend years single, even, because you know what you want from a relationship. And you don't need to be with a person just because you feel lonely.
Madurez
Gracias a mi experiencia personal aprendí que lo que tengo que saber es si soy una persona madura o no.
Las relaciones de pareja requieren de paciencia, empatia, amor, pero por sobre todo madurez. Creo que eso te da el beneficio de saber reconocer que esperas de la otra persona, que puedes aportar a una relación, así como muchos aspectos importantes.
Puedes pasar años soltero (a), incluso, porque sabes que es lo que quieres de una relación. Y no necesitas estar con una persona solo porque te sientes solo.
Emotional and mental stability
In addition to this, mental and emotional stability also plays an important role. There are people who wonder why their relationships end, they do not know the reason, which is due to it.
Nowadays there is access to information, everything can be investigated with a click. So this expands the possibilities for people to avoid what was normal years ago. More and more of us understand and know that toxic and unfaithful people are insecure. It also allows us to recognize if a person is emotionally and mentally stable. To the point that new terms are invented every day.
But, by this I do not mean that these are right or wrong. Some are meaningless, while others have helped the recipient understand the message about not accepting tantrums or abuse.
Estabilidad emocional y mental
Además de ello, la estabilidad mental y emocional, también juega un papel importante. Hay personas que se preguntan porque terminan sus relaciones, desconocen la razón, la cual es debido a ello.
Hoy en día hay acceso a la información, se puede investigar todo con un clic. De forma que esto amplia las posibilidades a las personas para que puedan evitar lo que hace años era normalizado. Cada vez son más los que comprendemos y sabemos que las personas toxicas e infieles son inseguros. También nos permite reconocer si una persona es estable emocional y mentalmente. Al punto de que cada día se inventan nuevos términos.
Pero, con ello no me refiero a que estos estén bien o mal. Algunos carecen de sentido, mientras que otros han ayudado al receptor para comprender el mensaje sobre que no debe aceptar berrinches o maltratos.
Know how to listen, understand, and find solutions
We all have ears to listen, but not all of us understand and look for solutions. This is the difference between a healthy relationship and one where there are only arguments.
Sometimes we must listen carefully, putting aside displeasure. This way we see how it is different.
Saber escuchar, entender, y buscar solucione
Todos tenemos oídos para escuchar, pero, no todos comprendemos y buscamos soluciones. Esta es la diferencia entre una relación sana, y en la que solo hay discusiones.
A veces debemos escuchar atentamente, dejando de la lado el disgusto. De esta manera vemos como es diferente.
Respect your privacy
One of the biggest current problems is the lack of privacy. We have become accustomed to documenting everything, uploading it to social networks.
Without realizing how this can affect our personal life. This may be an unpopular opinion, but for me, exposing your relationship online is opening the door to everyone. Although, it also depends on the way you do it.
Respetar tu privacidad
Uno de los mayores problemas actuales es la falta de privacidad. Nos hemos acostumbrado a documentar todo, subiéndolo a redes sociales.
Sin darnos cuenta de como esto puede afectar nuestra vida personal. Esta quizás sea una opinión impopular, pero, para mi exponer tu relación en redes es abrir la puerta a todos. Aunque, también depende de la forma que lo hagas.
That I have to do? | ¿Qué tengo que hacer?
Grasp
Understand that you are no longer alone, now, with your partner, you have a team.
Working individually is no longer necessary, someone is willing to share even the smallest details with you. Someone will listen to you, laugh with you, hug you, even make you see reason.
We must understand that when we are in a relationship we cannot continue doing single things. It is what is now called "affective responsibility". Because what we do can hurt the other person.
Understanding is also part of thinking of the other as if they were yourself, as a valuable and important person for you.
Comprender
Comprender que ya no estas solo, ahora, con tu pareja, tienes un equipo.
Trabajar de forma individual ya no es necesario, alguien esta dispuesto a compartir contigo hasta lo más mínimo. Alguien te escuchara, reirá contigo, te abrazara, te hará entrar en razón incluso.
Hay que comprender que cuando tenemos una relación no podemos seguir haciendo cosas de solteros. Es lo que ahora se llama "responsabilidad afectiva". Porque lo que hagamos puede lastimar a la otra persona.
Comprender también forma parte de pensar en el otro como si fueses tu mismo, como una persona valiosa e importante para ti.
Because that's what loving is all about.
It means to serve, I know that this word can be misinterpreted from whatever point of view you look at. If we use "serve" for selfish purposes, then we do not understand the true meaning of love.
Giving, being, caring, that is serving. In love, it is a cycle, where you give, and you also receive.
In addition, it is one of the languages of love, so it gives us a lot of insight into how a relationship works.
Porque de eso se trata amar.
Significa servir, se que esta palabra puede ser malinterpretada desde el punto de vista que se mire. Si usamos "servir" para fines egoístas, entonces, no entendemos el verdadero significado del amor.
Dar, estar, cuidar, eso es servir. En el amor, es un ciclo, donde das, y también lo recibes.
Además de ello, es uno de los lenguajes del amor, por lo que nos da a entender muchísimo como funciona una relación de pareja.
Zul. ❤️
27/01/24
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