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Están las personas que les gusta estar solas y las que les encanta estar acompañadas, los que resuelven sus problemas solos o prefieren resolverlos en compañía, algunos suelen caminar solos otros lo hacen con compañía, algunos cambian sus vidas solos, pero otros requieren de una compañía para lograrlo. Sea cual sea la condición en la que te encuentres, es mejor hacerlo sólo que acompañado, porque el día que no tengas esa compañía ¿qué harás?
Miguel era un niño, que apenas estudiaba en la escuela, le gustaba andar solo, aunque una compañía no se la negaba a nadie. Desde primer grado andaba solo, estudiaba solo, salía al recreo solo, mientras sus compañeros se reunían en algún sitio del colegio para conversar o simplemente desayunar. Miguel en cambio lo solía hacer solo, el buscaba una mesa en la cantina y comía o sino encontraba mesa disponible se quedaba en la cantina recostado de la reja, pero comía solo mientras los demás estaban juntos.
Él no le disgustaba la compañía, pero le gustaba estar solo ya que por su mente pasaban miles de pensamientos que dentro de su soledad contestaba muchas y otras se las guardaba para después responderlas.
En clase la maestra mandaba a reunirse en grupos y el preguntaba si podía hacerlo individual, la maestra en ocasiones lo dejaba hacerlo sólo, pero otras actividades requerían de una segunda persona. Él no escogía con quien quería estar, él solo esperaba a que todos escogieran y el que quedaba iría con él.
A la hora de la evaluación, Miguel estaba seguro de lo que hacía, era estudioso y a pesar de que no compartía conocimientos con sus compañeros de clase solía representar una de las notas más altas del salón. Algunos compañeros le decían para estudiar juntos, pero él les decía que prefería estudiar solo, a menos que en el recreo quisieran quedarse en el salón para estudiar, pero sus compañeros no querían.
Miguel solía ser antipático y no era de relacionarse mucho con las personas, a la hora de estudiar en casa, lo hacía solo en su cuarto y colocaba música de fondo que lo ayudaban a concentrarse en lo que hacía. Si tenía dudas no preguntaba, simplemente se quedaba con la duda o en su camino de entendimiento lograba solucionar su duda, pero esto no era siempre así.
En clase la maestra preguntaba si había dudas, algunos preguntaban, pero Miguel no, el esperaba al final de clases para aclarar la duda el solo directamente con la profesora. Ese era Miguel, un lobo solitario.
Con el pasar de los grados Miguel no iba cambiando, seguía igual de antipático. Y en ocasiones se solía distraer en clases, era la única evolución negativa que presentaba. En todo lo demás seguía igual. Las maestras no entendían porque él no conversaba con los demás compañeros de clase, incluso en ocasiones no salía al recreo, se quedaba en el salón solo, comiendo o repasando. Su comportamiento era extraño y muy diferente al resto de alumnos del salón.
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Miguel le costaba entablar conversación con sus compañeros de clase, pero en su casa era todo lo contrario. Los padres tampoco entendían el porqué de su comportamiento. La repuesta de Miguel a su comportamiento era indiferente, él decía que era así y que lo dejaran tranquilo, no todos los alumnos eran iguales.
Y así siguieron pasando los años hasta que Miguel llega al liceo. Los padres al ver que este no conversaba con nadie deciden cambiarlo de lugar, y se van a inscribir a su hijo a otra institución, con la esperanza de que el cambiará su actitud. Al principio sus compañeros le buscaban conversación porque era el nuevo, pero con el pasar de los años se dieron cuenta de la verdadera personalidad de Miguel y lo dejaban tranquilo.
Algunos profesores se sentaban a conversar con él para ayudarlo o ver si lograban detectar porque Miguel tenía ese comportamiento, pero él no colaboraba con los profesores, incluso le advertían a él que después del liceo llegaba la universidad donde seguramente tenga que hablar mucho y no puede estar con ese comportamiento que vienes teniendo en años, pero el seguía indiferente.
Se gradúa de bachiller y ahora en unos meses le tocaba ingresar a la universidad, no tenía muy definido lo que iba a estudiar, pero sabía que podía seleccionar al menos tres opciones y esperar a que la universidad le diera un cupo para cualquiera de las carreras que él mismo había seleccionado.
En menos de una semana Miguel recibe un correo de la universidad asignándole la carrera por la que fue seleccionada, este celebró en silencio aquel correo que la universidad le había enviado. Los padres le preguntaban si sabía algo y él no les dijo nada. Sino cuando faltaban menos de dos semanas para comenzar, los padres también celebraron junto con él. Luego unas palabras de aliento para su nuevo camino.
A mediados del primer semestre Miguel consigue una compañera de clase que antes de terminar el primer semestre estarían juntos, no comprometidos, pero ya se estaban conociendo. Miguel seguía con su carácter de siempre, pero Ana, su compañera, le cambiará esa manera de ser.
Según describe Miguel, Ana era más que una amiga para él, era considerado para él como su hermana mayor. Era una joven bastante atractiva, le gustaba el hacer ejercicios por la tarde, en ocasiones salía a recorrer las calles de su ciudad en bicicleta, era muy buena estudiante y fue ella quien se fijó en él, a pesar de su comportamiento extraño ella tenía una misión con él, cambiarle la manera de ver las cosas y que fuera esa persona de éxito.
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Ana describió a Miguel cómo esa persona fría, que no se suele llevar con casi nadie, era una persona muy detallista a pesar de su comportamiento, se distraía bastante también, no le gustaba preguntar en clases y aunque tenía dudas en ocasiones le invitaba para que la aclarara, pero él no lo solía hacer, por eso llegué a su vida para cambiársela, él tiene buena pinta de que ayudándolo puede ser consideradas una persona con buenos sentimientos y que da más allá de lo que la misma muestra.
En la universidad el coincidía con compañeros de clases del liceo. Al cual al principio el no saludaba, pero con el pasar de los semestres fue cambiando su actitud. En apenas el segundo semestre Ana decía que Miguel evolucionaría su comportamiento, a un paso lento, pero demostrándole mi amor y las ganas de hacer un cambio en él se lograría.
Comienza el tercer semestre y Ana invita a Miguel a su casa, ella quería conversar sobre sus cambios que ha conseguido y lo que tiene para este nuevo semestre. Estamos estudiando juntos y quiero que cambies, eres más de lo que puedes dar hoy y seguramente nos graduemos juntos, colabora conmigo que quiero un mejor futuro para ti, no importa que al final me dejes de hablar o no quieras nada conmigo, pero tú tienes que cambiar y conservar todos los cambios que vas a realizar en tu vida, le exclamó Ana a Miguel en su casa.
En el tercer semestre Ana consigue que Miguel pregunté en clases tanto sus dudas como entablar conversación con otro compañero de clase. El cuarto semestre logra que Miguel haga grupos solo y con otras personas, no solo con ella, de esta manera consigue también hacer nuevas amistades.
Nuevamente coincide con compañeros de clases del liceo y les sorprende como ha cambiado Miguel, y estos se lo hacen saber a él. Uno de ellos le dice que, si ya tiene novia, que seguramente es la persona que lo ha hecho cambiar, porque por amor las personas cambian, Miguel les dice que no, en el liceo era una persona y en la universidad es otra completamente diferente y que su cambio se debe a esfuerzo personal por intentar mejorar sus relaciones con otros compañeros.
Para el quinto semestre había conseguido mucho, Ana lo estaba llevando por un buen camino y ella cree que todavía le falta, Miguel hasta ahora todavía no le había agradecido nada a Ana, pero ella tampoco le hacía falta, ella lo hacía por verlo mejor. En el siguiente semestre ya comenzaba a relacionarse con otras chicas, y a formar grupo de exposición o trabajos grupales con ella y otras chicas, pero la iniciativa era de su parte. Para Ana no significaba problemas, más bien se alegraba porque conseguía que también se relacionara con el género contrario ya que siempre era con puro chicos.
Al séptimo semestre lo vuelve a convocar, está vez le felicitaría por todo Ana. Pero Miguel también le agradece a ella todo lo que ha hecho en su vida. Ana lo invita a hacer ejercicios por la tarde o a pasear en bicicleta por las calles de la ciudad, el no duda y le acepta la propuesta, de esta manera ahora se relacionaría con el exterior y exploraría nuevos campos.
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En el octavo luego de varios meses siguiendo la misma rutina que Ana, Miguel logra un cambio físico en su cuerpo que ayudaría a Miguel a relacionarse mejor, ya no lo veían como aquel joven que era antipático, todo lo contrario, se le veía más fuerte tanto físico como mentalmente, había logrado en unos años varios cambios importantes en su vida, todo gracias a Ana y su decisión de recibir la ayuda y esfuerzo por hacerlo posible.
Al noveno y último semestre Ana y Miguel hacen la tesis juntos, y ella le propone a él a ir más allá en la relación de amigos que mantenía, Miguel no duda y le da una oportunidad porque considera que se lo merece. Presentan y todo sale bien, aprobados. Era el momento de llevar a la universidad los recaudos que le solicitaban para así recibir su título, la celebración la hicieron juntos y por partida doble.
Al salir deciden buscar trabajo los dos, para luego crear un emprendimiento entre los dos y vivir de ello juntos, así se lo propusieron y así se les dio. Luego de trabajar más o menos por unos dos años, lograron reunir el dinero necesario para alquilar un local y comprar todos los materiales para hacer de su idea una realidad y vivir felices y juntos como lo habían dicho y soñaban con verlo hacerse realidad.
Pasaron cinco años, donde les había ido muy bien. Ya para esa fecha querían formalizar su matrimonio y con ello crear una familia, lo venían pensado y así sucedió. Ana y Miguel habían tenido una pequeña hija que le pusieron de nombre Victoria, todo relacionado a el esfuerzo que hizo primero Ana en Miguel y luego por su relación que fueron construyendo con el pasar de los años.
Luego de 19 años juntos Ana y Miguel reciben diferentes ofertas de trabajo en el exterior, cosa que los preocupa a ambos. Victoria hace poco menos de un año se había ido a vivir con su novio, a formalizar su vida, algo que Ana y Miguel no estuvieron de acuerdo, pero no lograron detener, solo quedó darle una recomendación a su hija.
Ana y Miguel deciden cerrar su negocio de años una vez que ambos confirman su trabajo en el exterior. Trabajo que les brindaba a ambas condiciones de vida espectaculares, así que ambos tienen que viajar a diferentes destinos para comenzar una vida nueva en un nuevo ambiente.
Para Ana no significaba mucho alejarse de Miguel ya que siempre fue una persona abierta, pero Miguel era cerrado y después se fue abriendo al mundo. Él si sufrió alejarse, pero a pesar de que se hablaban todos los días para Miguel no era lo mismo estar solo que acompañado.
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Ahora quiero preguntarte a ti lector, prefieres estar ¿solo o acompañado? ¿O te sientes cómodo en ambas situaciones?
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There are people who like to be alone and those who love to be accompanied, those who solve their problems alone or prefer to solve them in company, some usually walk alone others do it with company, some change their lives alone, but others require a company to achieve it. Whatever the condition in which you find yourself, it is better to do it alone than with company, because the day you do not have that company, what will you do?
Miguel was a boy, who was just studying at school, he liked to walk alone, although he did not deny anyone company. Since first grade he walked alone, studied alone, went out to recess alone, while his classmates met somewhere in the school to talk or just have breakfast. Miguel, on the other hand, used to do it alone, he would look for a table in the canteen and eat or if he couldn't find an available table he would stay in the canteen leaning against the grill, but he ate alone while the others were together.
He did not dislike the company, but he liked to be alone because thousands of thoughts went through his mind and in his loneliness he answered many of them and others he kept to himself to answer them later.
In class the teacher would send him to meet in groups and he would ask if he could do it individually, the teacher sometimes let him do it alone, but other activities required a second person. He did not choose who he wanted to be with, he just waited for everyone to choose and whoever was left would go with him.
At evaluation time, Miguel was sure of what he was doing, he was studious and even though he did not share knowledge with his classmates he used to represent one of the highest grades in the class. Some classmates would ask him to study together, but he would tell them that he preferred to study alone, unless at recess they wanted to stay in the classroom to study, but his classmates did not want to.
Miguel used to be unfriendly and did not relate much with people, when it was time to study at home, he did it alone in his room and played music in the background to help him concentrate on what he was doing. If he had doubts he did not ask, he simply stayed with the doubt or in his way of understanding he managed to solve his doubt, but this was not always the case.
In class the teacher would ask if there were doubts, some would ask, but not Miguel, he would wait until the end of class to clarify the doubt by himself directly with the teacher. That was Miguel, a lone wolf.
With the passing of the grades Miguel did not change, he was still as unfriendly. And sometimes he used to get distracted in class, it was the only negative evolution he presented. Everything else remained the same. The teachers did not understand why he did not talk with the other classmates, sometimes he did not even go out for recess, he stayed in the classroom alone, eating or reviewing. His behavior was strange and very different from the rest of the students in the classroom.
Miguel found it difficult to engage in conversation with his classmates, but at home it was the opposite. His parents did not understand why he was behaving the way he did. Miguel's response to his behavior was indifferent, he said he was like that and to leave him alone, not all students were the same.
And so the years went by until Miguel arrived at the high school. His parents, seeing that he did not talk to anyone, decided to change his place and enrolled their son in another institution, in the hope that he would change his attitude. At first his classmates sought conversation with him because he was the new kid, but as the years went by they realized Miguel's true personality and left him alone.
Some teachers sat down to talk to him to help him or to see if they could detect why Miguel had that behavior, but he did not collaborate with the teachers, they even warned him that after high school he would go to college where he would surely have to talk a lot and he could not be with that behavior that he had been having for years, but he remained indifferent.
He graduated from high school and now in a few months he had to enter the university, he did not have very defined what he was going to study, but he knew that he could select at least three options and wait for the university to give him a place for any of the careers that he had selected.
In less than a week Miguel received an email from the university assigning him the career for which he had been selected, he silently celebrated the email that the university had sent him. His parents asked him if he knew anything and he did not tell them anything. But with less than two weeks to go, the parents also celebrated with him. Then a few words of encouragement for his new path.
In the middle of the first semester Miguel gets a classmate and before the end of the first semester they would be together, not engaged, but they were already getting to know each other. Miguel continued with his usual character, but Ana, his classmate, would change his way of being.
According to Miguel's description, Ana was more than a friend to him, she was considered his older sister. She was a very attractive young woman, she liked to exercise in the afternoon, she sometimes went out to ride her bicycle through the streets of her city, she was a very good student and it was her who noticed him, despite her strange behavior, she had a mission with him, to change his way of seeing things and to make him be that successful person.
Ana described Miguel as that cold person, who does not usually get along with almost anyone, he was a very detailed person despite his behavior, he was also quite distracted, he did not like to ask questions in class and although he had doubts sometimes invited him to clarify it, but he did not usually do it, so I came into his life to change it, he looks good that helping him can be considered a person with good feelings and that gives more than what it shows.
At the university he met classmates from high school. At the beginning he didn't say hello, but as the semesters went by he changed his attitude. In just the second semester Ana said that Miguel would evolve his behavior, at a slow pace, but showing him my love and the desire to make a change in him would be achieved.
The third semester begins and Ana invites Miguel to her house, she wanted to talk about the changes she has achieved and what she has for this new semester. We are studying together and I want you to change, you are more than what you can give today and surely we will graduate together, collaborate with me I want a better future for you, it does not matter that at the end you stop talking to me or do not want anything with me, but you have to change and keep all the changes you are going to make in your life, Ana exclaimed to Miguel at home.
In the third semester, Ana gets Miguel to ask her questions in class and to start a conversation with another classmate. The fourth semester she gets Miguel to make groups alone and with other people, not only with her, in this way she also manages to make new friends.
Once again, he meets classmates from high school and surprises them with how Miguel has changed, and they let him know. One of them tells him that, if he already has a girlfriend, that surely she is the person who has made him change, because people change for love, Miguel tells them that no, in high school he was one person and in college he is a completely different person and that his change is due to personal effort to try to improve his relationships with other classmates.
By the fifth semester he had achieved a lot, Ana was taking him on a good path and she believes that he still needs to do it, Miguel had not thanked Ana for anything so far, but she did not need to thank him either, she did it to see him better. In the following semester he was already beginning to relate with other girls, and to form exhibition groups or group work with her and other girls, but the initiative was on his part. For Ana it did not mean problems, but rather she was happy because she also got him to relate with the opposite gender since it was always with pure boys.
In the seventh semester she called him again, this time Ana would congratulate him for everything. But Miguel also thanks her for everything she has done in his life. Ana invites him to do exercises in the afternoon or to go for a bike ride through the streets of the city, he does not hesitate and accepts the proposal, this way now he would relate to the outside and explore new fields.
In the eighth semester, after several months following the same routine as Ana, Miguel achieved a physical change in his body that would help Miguel to relate better, he was no longer seen as that young man who was unfriendly, on the contrary, he was seen stronger both physically and mentally, he had achieved in a few years several important changes in his life, all thanks to Ana and her decision to receive the help and effort to make it possible.
In the ninth and last semester Ana and Miguel do their thesis together, and she proposes to him to go further in their relationship as friends, Miguel does not hesitate and gives her a chance because he considers that she deserves it. They present and everything goes well, they pass. It was time to take the required documents to the university to receive his degree, the celebration was done together and twice.
When they left, they decided to look for a job for both of them, so that they could create a business together and live off of it together. After working for about two years, they managed to raise the money needed to rent a place and buy all the materials to make their idea a reality and live happily together as they had said and dreamed of seeing it come true.
Five years passed, where they had done very well. By that time they wanted to formalize their marriage and with it create a family, they had been thinking about it and so it happened. Ana and Miguel had had a little daughter that they named Victoria, all related to the effort that Ana first made in Miguel and then for their relationship that they were building over the years.
After 19 years together, Ana and Miguel received different job offers abroad, something that worried them both. A little less than a year ago, Victoria had gone to live with her boyfriend, to formalize her life, something that Ana and Miguel did not agree with, but they could not stop, they only had to give her a recommendation to their daughter.
Ana and Miguel decide to close their business of years once both confirm their work abroad. Work that offered them both spectacular living conditions, so they both have to travel to different destinations to start a new life in a new environment.
For Ana it did not mean much to move away from Miguel since she was always an open person, but Miguel was closed and then he opened up to the world. He did suffer to move away, but even though they talked to each other every day, for Miguel it was not the same to be alone than to be accompanied.
Now I want to ask you, reader, do you prefer to be alone or in company, or do you feel comfortable in both situations?
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