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People tend to assume things about me, they judge my appearance, some believe me one way and others another. I can honestly tell you that I am many things, and throughout this path called life of almost 25 years of experiences and lessons learned, I feel that I am still discovering new things about María, as time goes by I get to know myself more, I learn more about myself. , and I realize that I am incredibly wonderful and unique, and that yes, I can be many, many things, even if people think anything about me, because come on, at the end of the day that is what they perceive of me, which does not mean that it is reality.

For me, maturity is something that is closely linked to time, because as time progresses one experiments, trying new things, discovering what he likes and what he doesn't, you develop as a person, you begin to see the world in different ways. Think about how you perceived things 10 years ago compared to how you do now. There are times when we think, if back then I had the mentality that I have now, maybe I wouldn't have screwed things up, maybe X situation would have turned out better. But the truth is that living that was precisely what gave you that mentality of steel that you have now, as I always say, making mistakes is not something is bad, sometimes you need it to learn how not to do things, to reach the dream goal .
Todos cambiamos, mutamos, nos adaptamos a las situaciones que nos coloca la vida. Podemos ser muchas cosas, y eso no es algo malo, no está mal evolucionar, cambiar de parecer, cambiar de opinión. Malo es estancarse en un punto y negarse a salir de allí, a ver las cosas desde perspectivas diferentes. Inténtalo, te sorprenderá ver como a veces la solución al problema simplemente se encuentra en ver las cosas desde otro punto de vista. No te cierres al cambio, aprender a adaptarte a las contratiempos, a resolver, a buscar soluciones en vez de enfrascarte en el problema.
We all change, mutate, adapt to the situations that life places on us. We can be many things, and that's not a bad thing, it's not bad to evolve, change your mind, change your mind. It is bad to get stuck at one point and refuse to get out of there, to see things from different perspectives. Try it, you will be surprised to see how sometimes the solution to the problem is simply found in seeing things from another point of view. Don't close yourself off to change, learn to adapt to setbacks, to solve, to look for solutions instead of immersing yourself in the problem.

Lately my mind has been flying, I think the end of the year has me like this, thoughtful. Perhaps it is due to the fact that this year I have evolved in many aspects of my life, I did things that I never imagined doing, I made many mistakes, of which I still suffer the consequences, but I try to cope with them, and beyond blaming myself, I see it as a lesson of life. This year life was in charge of teaching me to value myself more as a person, to learn that I should take care of myself, pamper myself, love myself, that I am my best partner, my best friend, and that I can be whatever I set out to be. I visualized how I finished last year and how this year is coming to an end and there is a big change. Today I am a stronger, wiser María, who loves herself much more, and who has learned to let go and enjoy life more, eternally grateful to the universe. for all the blessings that he placed in his path, and for those that are coming now that I have learned to receive. Anyway, this is me once again wandering through my thoughts, for now I say goodbye. See you in the next post.
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Un increíble mensaje en el que me llegué a identificar muchas veces. Gracias por tus palabras, María, y por compartir esto con nosotros. Un abrazo!
Cada diferente etapa de la vida lleva consigo una manera distinta de discernir, y en su momento, las acciones consecuencias del buen discernimiento fueron las más adecuadas, no obstante, mientras más se avanza en las etapas, se van develando críticas que uno mismo hace a las acciones pasadas, que incluso uno puede considerar que fueron errores, pero en realidad, en su momento no fueron. Nadie escapa a eso.
El asunto es, que la vida es un constante cambio de percepciones y pensamientos, entre otros, y en todo se usa el discernimiento para llevar a cabo la mejor acción, y lo que hay que tener presente con claridad es, que al tener certeza sobre algo, la misma a futuro cambiará.
Pienso que lo mejor es siempre asumir una mente abierta a los cambios de manera permanente. Incluso, en la búsqueda de un objetivo, porque al lograr alguno, siempre surgirá otro. La vida es una búsqueda y no tiene fin; moriremos buscando. Destaco que la vida es acción, y si en algún momento uno se estanca y siente que no hay avance, en otro momento surgirá algo que hará que uno continúe, aunque uno no haya buscado que surja.
Disfruta tu nuevo grado de desarrollo, tu cambio en la maduración.