Hey @grayo - a warm welcome to Hive (well to posting on it anyway!)
I really like what you say about wearing and doing what is right for you and about being yourself. This in particular rings true:
I can only be the best version of myself
I'm 42 and I think I'm only just starting to get the hang of being myself and not caring what other think!
I've gamed quite a bit in the past but not doing much currently other than @risingstargame here on Hive - it's a music card based music career game. I picked it because I'm a musician.
Anyway nice intro post and have some !PIZZA