Some people are impossible to understand ( why they act the way they do ). It's usually a repeated pattern, ( trauma ) passed from generation on generation. I hope that Mey-Yii finds a way to break that pattern. The love that your family has given her might help with that.
Big hug!
It is very difficult to change her grandmother, and as a child, when living with a grandmother who has such a character since she was born, so it is normal that she has the same stubbornness as her grandmother. When she stayed home with us I tried to talk and teach her something but now she stopped come back our house. I thought, her grandma don’t let her visit us because I used to asked her and she did not reply to me but I feel it.
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