I was watching a show on YouTube today, and the guy was talking to a girl who a lady can't have a female without the guy thinking about how to make it sexual at the end of the day. In the video, they went back-and-forth, and the lady was forced to call a guy she is her friend, and after a few conversations, the guy already agreed to taking her out on a date and doing something later, which proved the guy was right. Still, I don’t completely agree with this, even though we have guys who can’t make friends with a lady without sexualizing it.
I believe one of the major reasons this is happening is that 70% of friendships between opposite genders happen after the lady or the guy is not interested, so instead of going their separate ways, they settle for just being friends, but the truth is that feelings never die. They can be friends for so many years, but the feeling will always be there. Most friendships between opposite genders don’t happen from a place of friendship It happens from the place of rejection to friendship.
It is crazy
This is not so bad to the extent that you can’t even be nice to a lady again because most ladies now think if you’re trying to be nice to them you are trying to like get something in return. They always believe there is a separate agenda for a guy being nice to them, they have it at the back of their mind that anything that guys do is always because of an agenda and they are trying to get something in return which is not always true. I know it is very difficult to even have a female friend or a male friend because most people will never believe you that it is just based on friendship and nothing more.
I believe we have guys that just want to be friends with you without anything attached and it is annoying when your female friend or the opposite gender thinks you are trying to get something and you’re only trying to be a friend. Some people don’t even want anything to do with you and they are just my friends, but it is always very difficult to explain in our world today because most people believe that there is something you are after that.
Define it
I believe the fourth is from the two genders because a lot of people know people who just want to be friends with them and people who have a separate agenda. You don’t expect a guy who has been disturbing you for a few years to settle for just being friends without feelings for you. It’s not possible and the feeling we always be there. When you have people like that as your friends, you must accept that the agenda might not be there anymore but the feeling will always be. Find people who don’t find you attractive sexually to be your friend instead of settling for people that you’ve rejected before. I believe the opposite gender can be friends if it doesn’t start as a sexual thing.