The first ceremony in the Vietnamese's life

in HIVE Vietnam2 years ago

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How many celebrations do people in your country have in their lifetime? Everyone in Vietnam will experience the five life celebrations listed below.

  1. Full-month ceremony
  2. Celebration of a one-year-old baby's birthday
  3. Engagement ceremony
  4. Wedding ceremony
  5. Funeral

Follow me now to learn about the first ceremony in the Vietnamese people's lives. That's Full-month ceremony.

When will the full-month ceremony be celebrated?

According to Vietnamese folk beliefs, full- month ceremony is celebrated when the child has just turned a month after birth. However, for boys, it is one day back, and for girls, it is two days back. This ​is an illustrative example

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The meaning of full- month ceremony

Babies are born and are based on the kneading of three Fairy and twelve Midwives, according to folk beliefs, so the full-month ceremony is held with many profound meanings. The family expresses gratitude to the Gods, Midwives, and Ancestors for sending the child to them. The image below is three Fairy in the middle and twelve Midwives.

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  • It's time for parents to choose a name for their child.
    In the past, people in Vietnam didn't name their children until they were one month old. Because they were afraid of making them difficult to raise. So in this day, parents will pray to the Midwives accept a name after by tossing up two coins.

  • Introduce your kids to everyone
    Both the mother's and the baby's bodies are extremely weak in the first few days after birth. Both the mother's and the baby's bodies are extremely weak in the first few days after birth. As a result, both mother and child intend to contact strangers and avoid going out. The end of the first month also marks the end of the most trying period for both mother and baby. This is also the first day the family informs their paternal grandparents, maternal grandparents, relatives, and neighbors about the child, whom few have seen since birth. This functions as social proof of child's existence.

  • They pray to the Gods and Ancestors to protect the health and well-being of their children.

What should we prepare for full- month ceromony?

Different regions will prepare various items. Here are the preparations for my hometown's full-month celebration.
Flowers in a vase

Sweet soup in 12 small bowls

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12 sticky rice plates

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A boiled rooster

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Betel and areca

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Fruits

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Tea, rice, fermented sticky rice and paper sacrifices

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Incense and candle

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The items listed above are the fundamentals for preparing for a full-month ceremony.

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Rituals in a full-month ceremony

The host reads the names of the 12 midwives, the date of the offering, and the names of the couple and their child respectfully. Then he wishes all the best for the child.

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  • Pray 12 Midwives accept child's name
    The owner tosses two coins onto the plate. If the two sides of coin differ, the name is acceptable.

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If the two sides of the coin are the same, you must repeat the process. If all three times are the same, you must choose a new name.
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However, this ritual is no longer widely practiced because parents frequently name their child immediately after birth in order to obtain a birth certificate.

  • Paper sacrifices are burned.

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  • Invite everyone to the party so that everyone can share in the family's joy.

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The following are the fundamentals of a full-month ceremony in my hometown. Can you tell me more about a ceremony like this one in your hometown?
Thank you for reading my post; I wish you the best of luck! See you next post !!!

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I'm sure I had this before but somehow I didn't remember how it took place, who was there and what I was doing. 😁

Do you have baby @dodovietnam ? 😊

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It is good to know our culture of chosing names for the babies. I didn't know about it until reading your post. Thank you for sharing.

Thank for your reading @dora381 this ritual is no longer widely practiced because parents frequently name their child immediately after birth in order to obtain a birth certificate 🙂

I didn't know it before. Thank you for your post