This isn't something happening to me, but what I see being done to others. I can say that they do tend to succeed at least in the short run. Over time however, it's almost as if they've depleted the soil and need to move on to more fertile fields.
As for "Jay" (not his real name) after having several girls attempt suicide over him, he's not my friend. He's said he doesn't just want to dump these girls after taking everything they have, but he wants to totally destroy them. He's a psychopath and this hatred he has of women also stems from the rejection he feels after their remarks about the size of his manhood when he's sent his personal photos out. He showed me the texts, they cut him down. So now, he's taking it out on all women.
As for paying his bills, he's instead been run out of jobs and housing when his cruelty becomes known. Bouncing from shelter to shelter, so it hasn't helped him. This is why he needs to find new people to use all of the time.
He says, he knows what he's doing is wrong, but he can't stop.
He likes girls who have money or something he wants, which is why he targets nurses and nursing students. Word is spreading and they are beginning to avoid him. He has no remorse at all and has told me in the past: "I don't just want to hurt these girls, I want to destroy them." We do everything we can to warn people, but he selects girls with self-image issues, and many times they don't listen until it's too late.