I'm someone who probably looks at the bigger pictures and the likelihood of events even I cannot control, I know this is bad, but sometimes I mostly focus on the things I cannot control and wish I can be in charge. As per internalization, I think, one's reality matters. However, like you said, not like we would abandon the external aspect, but focusing more on us.
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For me, I try switching between the bigger picture and the small picture. I realize there isn't any fun in only focusing on the small picture.
You summed it quite well for me. Thanks for the reward :)