Hello friends, today I will tell you how my relationship started 10 years ago. It was when I entered the 1st year of high school, I was a super shy, quiet and calm girl. I went to a private high school that although it was not far from my house, my parents had arranged transportation for me (they have always overprotected me). For me the least that interested me in those days was having a boyfriend, the children still made me sick at that time, just thinking about kissing someone on the mouth made me sick and for me it was very important what kissing meant. Well, it all starts when José, the most popular boy from the high school enters my section, was the typical bad boy, the one who broke the rules and was always disinterested in school tasks and activities. His mother worked in the cleaning school and his sister in the administration part, he had studied there since Kindergarten. Therefore everyone knew him since childhood. Before José came to my section everything was peace and quiet, the classes were seen daily without any news. Then everything changed, he would not give the class, he would mess with the teachers to make others laugh and all the others followed him in every plan that he had as crazy as it was, such as turning off the light and waging war of bags in the laboratory. All the girls in my classroom and those in other sections wanted to approach him, even he had several girlfriends in the same high school. But my 2 friends Laura and Luisa and I only bothered because I no longer need to teach and I was always a clown. It never occurred to any of the 3 of us to be something of him and be part of the list of crazy girls who wanted with him. It turns out that perhaps my lack of interest in him caught his attention and like every child to get attention he would pick on me, he would say to me every time he saw me: "Why are you so ugly?" Over and over and I just ignored him or told him to stop the nuisance. Since I had never given him any confidence, he didn't even speak to him.
One day I was walking towards the canteen and he came from the back and he carried me hugging his back, I knew who he was until I could turn around and see him and I was hysterical, telling him that he would let me know that it was a lack of respect while he just laughed. In that, without realizing it, the coordinator arrived, who was super strict and 0 tolerant of relations between students (to complete my mom's super friend) and she said to me: "Miss Zorrilla, what is the dummy you carry? I am going to have to talk with Gladys (my mom) "and in that José I let go as best I could between my nerves and the desire to cry I told him that it was he who carried me without my permission. She left and I was very upset with him because he had got me in trouble. I still thought that the coordinator was not going to say anything.
Then the days go by and the nerd in the Alberto room asks me to be his girlfriend. He took me to the canteen at recess and, holding hands, said "if you wanted to go out with him?" to which I replied "we are outside". José was on the court watching everything from afar until he decided to go and release our hands like that out of nowhere, I did not understand and I did it on purpose, I grabbed Alberto's hands again and told him what you were saying? So he asked me to go out on a date, to be his girlfriend and I said yes and José was bothering us, he didn't want to stop talking to us.
José submitted Alberto whenever he wanted, he took the phone from him, since José did not have a phone. Then José already knew that Alberto and I were dating, just as he took away the phone to write to me, he very shamelessly said to me: "It's José, I took the phone from Alberto to write to you." And I died of rage because Alberto did nothing, I defending Alberto answered things like: "What are you doing with Alberto's phone? I am going to tell his mother." Well, the relationship with Alberto lasted 3 days at most, since I was not interested in having a boyfriend and we didn't even kiss.
A week later José asks me to be his girlfriend from Alberto's phone by text message, being in the same room and I did not answer him until I told him that he had to ask me in person. I just thought that it was safe to play because of all those who were interested in him I was null, apart from the fact that we lived fighting, that is, there was no chemistry. I thought from the beginning of saying no, of giving it to me of importance and despising it in his face. He had said he would give me a week to think about it. About 2 days passed and I was hoping that he had forgotten but no.
At the time of departure on April 12, 2010, everyone had already left the room. I was still picking up my things because as a strange thing everything fell out of my bag, that's what a common friend of his and mine happens who also studied with us, told me: "Josgle hurry up, they're waiting for you" or something like that, I I thought it was my transport because I was super punctual. When I left the room on the stairs to go to the exit, José was there and the friend who came to get me took me directly to him while saying: "He sent you to call because he wants to tell you something", it was not very far from the room to the stairs and I saw that eternal piece, I started to sweat, my hands were cold and sweaty, I was about to have a panic attack. When he got in front of him he tells me that I sit there next to him and I just talk because my transport is already waiting for me. I wonder if he had already thought about the answer, that he knew that not a week had passed but that he already wanted to know. I would be well answered I had to ask me in person (for me to be able to say no in the face). And he asked me: "Do you want to be my girlfriend?" And I said: Yes, selflessly and he said: "YES?" What about me? Noo, I don't know what he was thinking and he said to me: "You already said yes, you can't say no now" and I quickly thought in 3 days I leave him as well as Alberto. And I just replied: Ok. Our friend said but give her a kiss and I did NOT and I left.
From the exit my friends Laura and Luisa saw everything that was happening when I got to where they were, they asked me: "What were you doing talking to that child?" And I told them we became boyfriends, and Luisa said: "Whoa? Are you crazy, don't you see how he is? He is a dog, apart from he comes by bus you are very different". I said to him: "Calm down in 3 days we are done, as with Alberto".
I went to my house thinking if it was really wrong to make a girlfriend of someone so different from me, from that moment it totally changed the way I saw him.
