Learn to accept differences, and fill your needs with yourself, with your attitudes, reflect a lot on your life, and make your choices. No one but yourself who can make yourself happy and be happy... you need to depend only on yourself.
This is totally true, a lot of people have there hope on someone else expecting to be provided for.
I just hope people will depend more on there selve, they will realize what they are capable of achieving.
We are happier when we depend on ourselves, depending on others is always a failure in sight.
Yes is always a failure as people always disappoint or give excuses that are not reasonable why they cannot be of help.
Yes, better not even ask for help in this case if we're not just going to waste our time and get frustrated.
You're right, the best an individual have to do is depends on him or herself than got embarrassed for asking for help.