You right on this but you know one thing in life is CHANGE is constant. So is either you change someone or you end up being changed, one will surely happen.
There is not benefit or profit in forcing change on someone because the more you do that the more you compromise yourself for the person.
We humans are easily influenced without us knowing we are already going through the process of change. So I urge everyone to seek after positivity in other not to caught up with negativity.
We have to be always in evolution and for that we must make the changes in ourselves because the world is in constant evolution and if we don't follow what is proposed, we are left behind.