Sometimes all you can do is just don't add more to the mess.
That pretty much sums up my approach to life, right there. As a wise person once said to me: "I can't change the world, but maybe I can leave it a SLIGHTLY better place as a result of my having been here."
I don't have any desire to rule/control anyone else... and I hope to be afforded some version of that in return.
I know... "good luck with that!"
Yeah, in a world of weaponized karenism, what can we really do?