A lot of people can't handle staying alone and not able to handle the lack of people around themselves. It is kind of a power and more of strength if you ask me. Because being alone in the odd days and the bad days requires a lot of mental power. And in order to do the most performance in life you need to learn how to handle living alone.
Another thing that I have noticed that people are not much into understanding the fact that you can explore more alone and learn better about the world. A lot of people just keep on expecting other people to live in their life and they kind of get people and the life for granted.
If you have lived in a hostel you realized how you are alone there making new friends and the connections. You learn to take care of your own self. And then you learn and also spend the days happy with new people too. So that is a process where you have learned few new things about the life in general.
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I think life requires a lot of our actions to be taken solo and also we learn a lot of things about being strong in our life by being alone. So in that context I'd say that being comfortable requires some effort of you taking more self decisions and not rely on the family, friends and also on some partner too.
So how do you become comfortable alone?
You have to make few changes in order to be more comfortable in life.
- Make sure to take difficult decisions alone.
- You have to learn to eat alone.
- You have to face the medical and the other places on your own.
- Learn to deal with problems alone instead of finding shelter among people.
Conclusion
When your mind finds the solution to the problems instead of being afraid of being alone. you start to become more comfortable being alone. And that is your strength too.
Have you learned to be comfortable being alone? What is your experience with being alone?
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STOPFine fine fine,but I must say it is a very hard one to do,even though at times it takes away complain that comes from different angle when we are with some set of people.
To me I didn't really fancy it which I must be honest about,cause am a boring person and most times I need people around me to actually gear me up.
But nevertheless the importance of being alone at times can't be overlooked as it pace way for someone.to.have space to think and even gives high level of privacy too