What to do with a pointless conversation
Shallow, pointless topics commonly show up during excruciatingly casual encounters, like running into someone you barely know when you get in the elevator. We have to deal with them somehow, but listen, we could even turn it into a positive experience.
Please note that I, as the author, enjoy deep, meaningful and complex conversations. I have nothing against superficial topics, it's just that they don't interest me at all. Using strategies to approach conversations with less scientifically-directed minds is necessary to be able to enjoy people in general. So, here's my strategy:
Ask them what weather they like best, reply with a quick, honest opinion, and then ask why they like that weather so much or for an example of a good experience they've had in that weather. Let them ramble. It will be interesting in some way because they're deep-diving about themselves.
And then, if you want to, you can close it with a 'that's really cool,' with which they will be satisfied (because they've been approved). Or you can ask more direct questions about that particular experience, occasionally adding your own experience. In the future, it will be easier to put up with that person in particular and others like them because you'll know a little more of what makes them tick.
Suddenly, the weather won't be so bad, since you've added a pinch of psychology and neurology to the conversation. It might still seem shallow, but it really isn't. All you have to do is take the subject and turn it into a subtle investigation. With this, I hope I've improved your life in the long run by helping you manage small talk.
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O que fazer com uma conversa inútil
Tópicos superficiais e sem sentido geralmente aparecem durante encontros terrivelmente casuais, como encontrar alguém que você mal conhece ao entrar no elevador. Temos que lidar com eles de alguma forma, mas ouça, podemos até transformar isso em uma experiência positiva.
Observe que eu, como autor, gosto de conversas profundas, significativas e complexas. Não tenho nada contra assuntos superficiais, só que não me interessam nada. Usar estratégias para abordar conversas com mentes menos orientadas cientificamente é necessário para poder agradar as pessoas em geral. Então, aqui está a minha estratégia:
Pergunte a eles que clima eles mais gostam, responda com uma opinião rápida e honesta e pergunte por que eles gostam tanto daquele clima ou um exemplo de uma boa experiência que tiveram naquele clima. Deixe-os divagar. Será interessante de alguma forma porque eles estão mergulhando profundamente sobre si mesmos.
E aí, se você quiser, pode encerrar com um 'que legal', com o qual eles ficarão satisfeitos (porque foram aprovados). Ou você pode fazer perguntas mais diretas sobre essa experiência específica, acrescentando ocasionalmente sua própria experiência. No futuro, será mais fácil suportar aquela pessoa em particular e outras como ela, porque você saberá um pouco mais sobre o que a move.
De repente, o tempo não estará tão ruim, já que você adicionou uma pitada de psicologia e neurologia à conversa. Ainda pode parecer superficial, mas na verdade não é. Tudo o que você precisa fazer é pegar o assunto e transformá-lo em uma investigação sutil. Com isso, espero ter melhorado sua vida a longo prazo, ajudando você a lidar com conversa fiada.
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É uma estratégia interessante kkk, vou tentar aplicar nas próximas vezes em que estiver em uma conversa que não estou muito afim de ter haha.
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Hmmm I can picture a lot of times I was in a elevator with someone that we didn’t talk all through. Next time I try this , hopefully I don’t get snubbed.