If we may ask, when was the last time you had a meeting in which there were negative things? I'm sure you must have prepared yourself as best you can to respond, But we wonder if you stuck with the meeting or are you trying to stay calm?
Actually it all depends on the scheme, maybe you can see clearly how worry & anxiety lead you into negativity, which is but it's natural for us to respond to it or respond negatively spontaneously when the atmosphere changes and gets out of control, and most importantly when we didn't expect it.
Usually a negative attack appears and we certainly put ourselves in a position that is unable to escape from it, but there is no need to worry some see this position is still in a normal condition because every time we are more or less negative dust is still attached to our minds.
The most important thing when we are faced with a position like this is how we see and how we interpret the situation, this is where the difference occurs, we can see firsthand our position, whether we will be winners or not, we can also see clearly some people who are all around us trapped with thoughts and in the end they become victims.
Each of us must have our own perception and that's good, because it shows that we are someone who has a free soul & mind, on the other hand we are given the power to be able to see bad things in good terms, just as we are given the ability to Seeing a white hair in a glass of milk, not everyone has this point of view, only wise people have it.
Another bad side of complaints that often occur even we ourselves are the culprits, we always assume that life is unfair, when we see something that doesn't go according to our wishes then we spontaneously say that life is unfair, but what are the more interesting facts? Maya Angelou has said "You may have lost a lot, but you can't be defeated".
The statement from Maya Angelou refers more to "Life as a winner is more interesting than being a loser", it is true that the journey of life to be a winner is not an easy thing, there are obstacles that come along, it could be in the form of environmental influences, pressures and so on, but striving to be a winner is the right thinking.
Would you agree if I said that life is very fair? If not then I'm happy with you because you already have your own point of view in dealing with life, whatever decisions you have made, however your point of view is what matters most is how it helps you through difficult times.
It's a good idea to start asking yourself questions about how did you evolve from the current situation? Because with these questions will make you win every day and you will be in a positive position when faced with negative things, if you let life be influenced freely life will slowly pull into despair.
Negatives are like weeds in a tobacco field, everyone will easily tell you that life is not fair, life is difficult, life is very hard and so on, but very few people will tell you how pleasant the journey of life is, everyone will can easily get happiness in life, very few people with this type, but don't doubt maybe you are one of them.
The point of this discussion is to be positive in any condition, because basically this positive attitude will help someone, me, you and everyone else to be winners in all the twists and turns of life that is going on.