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This has been a question hitting my mind for the past few days I keep asking people to hear there thoughts and answers. I got some answers and I also arrive at my own too. I only just have answer to just one 'Why is women love unconditionally' The babies and Dogs are normal thing(emotional).
Me as a man a woman can not just love me if I don't possess some material things especially this generation we are now. Women love a man that possess exotic cars, mansion and Money 🤑 this are things we know most women will want to aquire from a man just to love her. I can have all this things, walk up to thousand women tell them I love them they will will accept me under the condition of what I have.
Well this is the harsh reality of the society.
As men are always modeled as breadwinner of the family. Men are always taught to be responsible and protective. They are always told that if you are jobless then no one will give their girl to you. This is the rule of the society for decades.
Providing something in a relationship or in a love is not the compulsory parameter though but the way opposite person acknowledge it is important.
Talking about Jobless people, they hardly have respect in the society no matter how hard he is trying to get one. They are not considered to be fit for life partner.
Whereas if a man is earning well, he is approached by many. This is the prime factor for men to be loved. Providing something is always taken for granted.
Other side of the story says that there are a lot of men who provide nothing in a relationship but still loved unconditionally. Though this situation is very rare in our society.
I do agree on this point that providing something is one important factor for men to be loved.
I hope am making sense with
Please let share thoughts and let see your answers
Your questioning is interesting. But I feel like I must offer an opinion so you can see this one from another perspective.
There are, in fact, self-interested women just as there are self-interested men. However, for both genders, something is expected to be offered. Culturally, man is the provider. For hundreds of years man has been seen this way: The one who hunts and brings home food, the one who keeps his wife and children safe, the one who protects, who fights and sustains. Just as a woman is seen as a Mother, the one who takes care of the house, the one who takes care of the children while the husband works, the one who cooks, etc...
To claim that the man doesn't be seen only as of the one who should sustain and protect the woman, you must be prepared to accept a woman who does not want to have children, who do not want to do housework, and who above all wants to be independent.
A relationship is about taking care of each other. Both have to have something to offer.
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