Definitely I so much agreed with you and I want to say just as you have said that it goes beyond just professing it in word.
It takes actions , dedication and scarificaial attitude to actually prove that we love people,but of all I grow up with this church mindset that God is love and love is God
You get it right with all this dedication and scarification, although this is not easy for some people to scarify for their one, flesh will want to manifest, but if we are in christ it will be easy.