I kinda need to take some money off the table and spent on me doing something there feels good for the soul, which would traveling and learning new stuff for me.
This is the best advice anyone can give. If you have the money, use it now to provide yourself with a piece of mind. Everyone and I mean everyone, needs to take a break to recharge. Your longevity depends upon it. You'll pay for it now or later. Taking that break now means you exert some control over your life. I think it would make your time off more enjoyable.
After your body forces it, taking that break later will prevent you from experiencing the joy you would have already had if you had rested earlier. At least, that's my opinion. Get your rest, friend.
100%
The only problem is I just started a new job and don't have any vacation days saved up, so it might take a while before I can :D
What I can do, is utilize my weekends on stuff I enjoy!
Using your weekends is a great alternative. My wife and I would work our butts off during the week getting work, school work, and home chores completed. The weekends were our own before kids and in-laws. We could pretty much do whatever we wanted. It was great.
I could start with getting a girlfriend, so I had more to do :p
My friends don't always have time and neither do I xD
Sounds amazing :D
There are pluses and minuses to relationships. I would enjoy your life first for what it gives you. If a relationship happens along the way, then you might be better for it. I didn't rush things on my end. When it happened, I just tagged along for the ride.
The ride has been blissful, nightmarish, and contentful. LOL, sometimes I didn't know what was going to happen.
Ofcouse there is and no I will not get into a relationship just because I could xD
But thats the beauty of the ride!
Yeah, I'll tell you that I had zero intent on marriage and kids up until I was almost 40. Then I moved to California to a good job and caught up to an old friend I had back in the day who found me on Facebook. Everything changed after that.